Devotions on 'Joy'

This week I was cleaning out some papers and found a stack that looks like notes on a challenge/project I must have done seven or eight years ago. The instructions (in quotation marks below) were printed at the top of the first page, then my notes below that, and the other 'devotional' pages, were handwritten. There is no date on any of the papers, but judging by the handwriting style, and the wording of some of my notes, I'd guess that it was probably around 2011 or 2012. I have absolutely no memory of doing it. I don't know if this 'challenge' was from a blog I followed, a book I read, a camp or conference I attended, or a church small group (Sunday School, Wednesday night youth group, or Thursday night college Bible study). In any case, the topic is 'Joy', and that has been something I've really been struggling with in recent months (years, actually). I thought the timing was interesting that I should find these papers now.
I decided to share these little 'devotionals' here. They are short, most of them just three or four paragraphs, and not 'polished' at all, but I want to record them anyway. A '~' marks the separation between pages.

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"1) Read and meditate on 8 verses in the Bible that relate to being joyful.
2) Copy or print 2 of the 8 Bible verses and put them in a place that you'll see each day!
3) Journal one blessing per day that brings a smile to your face and reminds you of God's goodness and gift of joy.
4) Thank Jesus Christ for the joy that He has put in your heart. Pray that He will shine through the joy on your face and that He will use your testimony of JOY to bring others closer to Him.
5) Be prepared at the end of this month to post your thoughts, Bible verses on Joy, and 5 blessings that made you smile!!!"


Bestowed Joy -
Ecc. 2:26 - God giveth wisdom, knowledge, and joy
Zeph. 3:17 - joy over thee with singing
Luke 24:41 - they believed not for joy

Commanded Joy -
Phil. 4:4 - Rejoice in the LORD
Is. 24:14&15 - islands singing

Blessed Joy -
Ps. 126:3 - The LORD hath done great things for us, whereof we are glad.
Is. 12:3 - with joy draw waters out of the well of salvation

Fellowship Joy -
Philemon 1:7 - great joy in thy love

Salvation Joy -
1 Pet. 1:8 - rejoice with joy unspeakable
Jude 1:24 - present you with joy

Empowering Joy -
Neh. 8:10 - the joy of the LORD is your strength
Ps. 16: - fullness of joy

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Bestowed Joy
"For God giveth to a man that is good in his sight wisdom, and knowledge, and joy:..."
Ecclesiastes 2:26

This verse can be really convicting if we allow it to speak to us.
Everyone who has been saved may be considered 'good' in the sight of God, for their sin is covered by Christ, and He is what God sees. However, a saved person's actions are not always 'good'. Many times, though we are saved, we fall back into the ways of sin. Those times obviously are not pleasing to the LORD.
To me, the verse seems to be implying a message similar to that of James 1: If you want, truly want, the LORD to give us some good thing (like wisdom or Joy) we must ask. And we must be sincere in our asking. If we are saved but living like we don't care, dare we think God will just automatically bestow all these righteous qualities on us? Seems mighty presumptuous to me.
Let us live 'good'. Let our lives ask, and He will freely give all good things.

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Commanded Joy
"Rejoice in the Lord always: and again I say, Rejoice." 
Philippians 4:4 

Practice counting your blessings, and Joy will begin to come naturally. Make it a way of life! We have so many reasons to be joyful, period!, but what more wonderful reason is there to be glad than to think that Jesus, the Son of God, is our LORD?! There is none! Sure, difficult times come, and come often. We will get discouraged, hurt, or angered. But we aren't commanded to be 'happy'. Happiness depends on immediate circumstances. Joy looks to eternity. 
He is our Friend. He is our Brother. He is our Life! Rejoice! 

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Blessed Joy 
"The Lord hath done great things for us; whereof we are glad."
Psalm 126:3 

The joy and thanksgiving that the Psalmist felt here is just flying off the page. You can feel his enthusiasm, his gratefulness, and his worship of the One Who blesses. 
This verse in itself has been a blessing to me, for it expresses so simply, yet so adequately, the emotion I often feel. 
Great things! He has done great things for us! And we are glad. 
But here's another thought. He blesses us abundantly - but do we take time to thank Him for those blessings?
This may just be my interpretation, but I think that an inseparable part of true joy is it's expression - and what higher way to express it than to be thankful to Him Who gives it in the first place?! If someone is not thankful, they are not truly joyful. They may be happy - but not joyful. Take the story of the 10 lepers in the Bible. Jesus healed them all, and they were all glad. But one was truly joyful and he had to express it

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Fellowship Joy 
"For we have great joy and consolation in thy love, because the bowels of the saints are refreshed by thee, brother." 
Philemon 1:7 

It almost seems as if Paul here is writing what we'd call now-a-days a 'friendly letter' to Philemon. This dear friend and brother in Christ was evidently a very righteous man, someone who could be depended upon, and of a loving, compassionate, nature - an encourager. 
Paul and Timothy had been blessed and comforted in his love. And not only in his love toward them - but also because of his love toward "the saints". Sometimes it is just as much of a blessing to experience friendship for others you love, as it is to be given friendship yourself. 
Whatever the case was, Philemon was a believer who brought Joy to other believers. 
Personal application: I am blessed with several dear friends who I can truly say I "have great joy and consolation" in. They are my brothers and sisters in the LORD, and we are family! The LORD has increased the joy in my life through the love of these dear friends. 
Am I a friend who gives others Joy? 

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Salvation Joy 
"Whom having not seen, ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory:" 
1 Peter 1:8 
(ideally, verses 3-9)

It is almost necessary to start back at verse 3 to get the full context for this verse. Peter is encouraging the believers in the "temptations" or trials they are going through. These things are only for a little time and are relatively insignificant when compared with the awesomeness of Salvation, our unworthiness as recipients of such a gift, and the indescribable magnitude of eternity with Christ!
He has raised us from the lowest, most despicable position that such vile, repulsive creatures could come to and given us an incorruptible inheritance, shared with the most holy and pure being ever to exist - His Son. 
Considering this, it is totally reasonable that He seek to "try (our faith) with fire" that it may be found at the end, to glorify and honor this One Who gave Himself to give us Hope! And though we have never seen Him, yet we believe He has accomplished all - this belief caused (for the believers addressed here) a joy that was "unspeakable" with it's magnitude. 
Now for the personal application: I began to think on these verses, and was struck with this thought, 'When have I been so amazed and grateful for the Salvation He has given me that my joy was "unspeakable"? How often have I been speechless in the presence of such sacrifice? Not often enough. 

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Empowering Joy 
"Then he said unto them, Go your way, eat the fat, and drink the sweet, and send portions unto them for whom nothing is prepared: for this day is holy unto our Lord: neither be ye sorry; for the joy of the Lord is your strength." 
Nehemiah 8:10 

This is an interesting verse to me. The meaning of this phrase really hit me only a few days ago. I think that most people probably think - even unconsciously, like I did - that it's saying, in effect, "Be joyful, for the LORD will give you strength". But it doesn't! It says, "The joy of the LORD is your strength"! Their strength was in their Joy! It was their strength! Once I realized that, it was so neat to think of it that way, and really provided some 'food for thought'! 

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Book Review: "Powerful Prayers for Your Son" by Rob and Joanna Teigen

Powerful Prayers for Your Son: Praying for Every Part of His Life by Rob Teigen

My rating: 4 of 5 stars


“Powerful Prayers for Your Son” is the second book I have read by Rob and Joanna Teigen, and I was even more blessed by this one. I read “101 Prayers for My Son” a couple of years ago, and enjoyed and appreciated it immensely. When I saw the newly-released “Powerful Prayers for Your Son”, and “Powerful Prayers for Your Daughter”, I knew I wanted to read them, and have not been disappointed in the “Son” version! “Powerful Prayers for Your Son” is like an expanded, fuller version of the pocket-sized book “101 Prayers for My Son” by the same authors.

Full of meaningful and heart-felt prayers, and including encouraging stories and helpful advice, this book is a wonderful companion to Bible study or personal prayer time for the young men in one’s life. Even if you have no personal sons, this book is still excellent to use as a guide in how to pray for any boys or young men you may know. This book covers thoughts and prayers on almost any topic or challenge a young man will face. I will be recommending it to my friends who are parents of sons!

I received this book from Revell Reads free of charge, in exchange for my honest review.

Book Review: "Breaking the Power of Negative Words" by Mary C. Busha

Breaking the Power of Negative Words: How Positive Words Can Heal by Mary C. Busha

My rating: 3 of 5 stars


Mary C. Busha does an admirable job at both challenging and encouraging her readers in this quick-moving, easy-to-read, helpful book. I began it a little skeptically, not wanting to wade through the false flattery of another ‘you are so wonderful’, ‘you deserve better’, ‘you can just surround yourself with positive thoughts and things will all be turned into sunshine and roses’, ‘you are a fabulous human being and are in control of your own sparkling destiny’ ego-fluffer of a self-help manual. Though Ms. Busha does weave in the message that all human beings are wonderful creatures, she does it from a carefully Biblical standpoint, noting that humans are wonderful because of the skill and love of their wonderful Creator, not because of some natural goodness’ of their own. I appreciated how Ms. Busha continuously pointed her readers back to God, using teaching from the Bible as foundation stones and reasons for every message she sought to convey. The words we speak to others, the words we speak to ourselves, the words others speak to us, the mindset we have towards those who have hurt us with their words, forgiveness, wisdom, choices – all these issues she presents and discusses from both a practical standpoint and a spiritual one.

There were a few negatives that I found with this book. First, in spite of her seemingly extensive experience with scripture, Ms. Busha mis-applies several verses. In one example, she cites Proverbs 3:15 as if it speaks of a beautiful woman, when by reading a few verses before, we can see it is metaphorically describing the attribute wisdom. The beautiful description in this verse can most certainly be obtained by a Godly woman, but I feel that Ms. Busha is hasty/careless, or even intentional in her misuse of several verses, perhaps being more concerned with finding scriptures that seem to support her points, than with finding verses that actually support her points.

Second, I also was alarmed and saddened to come to the last few pages of the book, and find that Ms. Busha used a story involving a woman ‘pastor’, with no hesitation or acknowledgement of the fact that the practice of women pastoring goes directly against Biblical teaching.

Third, Ms. Busha uses a story to portray ‘sympathetic words’ (versus ‘faith-building’ words) as negative words. In this particular story, perhaps sympathetic words were not the best choice, but in general, words of sympathy certainly have an appropriate place in efforts to lift others up! Perhaps it appears I’m splitting hairs, and that readers should be able to make the connection automatically, but I feel that she should have been more careful of her presentation if she was trying to make the point ‘be discerning about what kind of encouraging words to use for individual situations’. The point came across more as, ‘speak words of strength, don’t speak words of sympathy, to those who are suffering’.

Lastly, and least important (but still necessary to mention to complete my honest review), there were a small handful of grammatical and punctuation errors, as well as instances of incorrect term usage.

Overall, I would recommend this book – I just would recommend it be taken together with a Bible and a dictionary as helpful references.

I received this book from Revell Reads free of charge, in exchange for my honest review.

Book Review: "The Wounded Shadow" by Patrick W. Carr

The Wounded Shadow by Patrick W. Carr

My rating: 3 of 5 stars


This is the third and last book in Patrick W. Carr’s ‘Darkwater Saga’, but the second that I have read.

‘The Wounded Shadow’ jumps right in where ‘The Shattered Vigil’ left off. Literally. In the middle of a scene. This technique can be both a positive and a negative one to use in a book series. For a reader who just finished one book and has immediate access to the next one, it creates a wonderful feeling of expectance. But it can also be very disjointing and confusing, causing an unfamiliar reader to have to read whole chapters before gaining any kind of idea about what’s going on.

Overall, this was an intriguing and enjoyable read. It was a well-crafted story (complex characters, intricate world-building), quite a page-turner, with many interlocking parts and weaving details that the author was able to keep straight admirably! However, there were a few aspects I found unpleasant.

One of the most irritating aspects of the story itself was the shameless way that the character Gael presented herself in several situations. It seemed that she possessed very little dignity, decorum, or self-respect in her provocative mannerisms, as well as little respect towards her fiancé’s desire for decency and honor in their relationship, or compassion toward his struggles. Though supposedly one of the ‘heroes’ of the story, she seemed to have a lot to learn about being a real one.

A couple of other negatives I found were the many women in religious leadership positions, the vaguely nagging ‘danglers’ left at the end (What ever happened to Lelwin? Why did Ealdor reach out to Willet in the first place, and were Willet’s unanswered questions to him ever answered? Was Modrie’s ‘mind’ ever restored and the sentinel race reestablished?), and – at the risk of sounding like I’m splitting hairs - the font size was small and painful to try to read, as in the previous book (I would rather be able to read the words without squinting, even if it means a thicker book).

All of the above aside, there were quite a few positive points. Allegorical tints to the story were much more evident in this book than in the previous one. Also, the development of young Mark’s character and Elieve’s redemption were probably my favorite aspects of the story. Their interaction was a fascinating and well-written situation. Mark’s determination that Elieve be rescued, his honorable conduct, and his unwavering dedication to her recovery in the face of huge odds, represent some of the most lacking (and yet most desirable) character traits in young people today. Perhaps we would see more ‘miracles’ happen now, if there were more people willing to sacrifice for others, work hard, and stay committed until the goal is accomplished, as Mark did.

I received a free copy of this book from the publisher. No review, positive or otherwise, was required—all opinions are my own.




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Book Review: "Quick Tips for Busy Families" by Jay Payleitner

Quick Tips for Busy Families: Sneaky Strategies for Raising Great Kids by Jay Payleitner

My rating: 3 of 5 stars


Mr. Payleitner writes with a fun and engaging style that is as effective at keeping his readers turning the pages as the short, quick, and straightforward ‘strategies’ (instead of ‘chapters’) are.

I am not married, and so therefore do not have children of my own. However, I work at a school and consider my students ‘my kids’ to a large extent. I chose this book hoping to use it as a reference and aid in discovering how to better help, serve, and deal with my students’ issues and needs. Some of the tips and advice are obviously more applicable to home life and/or ones’ own children. But much of the material can also be adapted to be useful in settings and situations like my own, for adults simply wanting to be a blessing to children they spend a generous amount of time with – baby sitters, grandparents, day care workers, Sunday School teachers, school staff, etc.

Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book from Blogging for Books for my honest review.

Book Review: "Wings of the Wind" by Connilyn Cossette

Wings of the Wind by Connilyn Cossette

My rating: 3 of 5 stars


Once again, Mrs. Cossette delivers a fascinating story. Good descriptions, fast-moving scenes, and believable characters make this another thoroughly engaging book.

The author’s imagination is displayed in vivid detail through her creative writing, though the convincing evidence of thorough research is probably the most valuable point in ‘selling’ her work.

That having been said, there were a couple of negatives for me. One was the graphic and disturbing nature of some of the events described. I recognize that this period of history in this area of the world was extremely dark and demonic. However, there were scenes that it seemed could have been a little less graphically descriptive, but still gotten the point across. The second was the interweaving of some of the fictitious characters’ lives with those of actual Biblical/historical figures. This, I suppose, is just a personal preference, but there seemed to be an excessive amount of liberty taken in how the imaginary and the real people were related.

Overall, I enjoyed the second book in this set better, but, if you are interested in Biblical history, or (like me) enjoy romances between husbands and wives, this was a story worth reading.

I received a free copy from the publisher. No review, positive or otherwise, was required—all opinions are my own.

Book Review: "Tough as They Come" by SSG Travis Mills

Tough As They Come by Travis Mills

My rating: 3 of 5 stars


“Tough as They Come” is the inspiring story of one of only five soldiers to survive quadruple amputee injuries as a result of his service in Afghanistan. This story is another reminder of why the title “hero” is so incredibly appropriate to describe our servicemen!

Sergeant Mills writes with an openness, honesty, and humor that keeps the pages turning. Coming from a family that has several servicemen in it, I was both humbled and encouraged – Sergeant Mills’ selflessness, positive attitude, and the love and support between him and his family were wonderful to witness throughout the pages.

At one point, someone asked him, “I hear you’re doing a lot of public speaking lately. What do you have to speak about anyway, dude?!”
He replied, “Nothing really. All I do is walk into a room full of people and say, ‘Hey, everybody, snap your fingers and wiggle your toes.’ They snap and wiggle, and I say, ‘Okay, your life’s not so bad.’”
Great mix of humor and humble challenge!

Negatives: Though Sergeant Mills stated that he believes in prayer, God, right and wrong, the Bible (“at least as it pertains to helping a person live his life better”), and that “faith can help a person along in life”, I was saddened that his Faith did not seem to go much deeper than those simple acknowledgements. He mentions a verse that helped reassure and inspire him during his recovery, but the Lord was plainly working in his life in such larger ways than just through that one Bible verse! Perhaps he simply chose not to speak about his Faith in greater detail; I don’t know. I do hope and pray that he knows Jesus Christ for himself, in more than just generalities.

There were also several instances of crude or foul language.

Disclaimer: I received a free copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

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"Happy Home Adventures"

 
"Bullfrogs in the sock drawer,
drill bits with the bobby pins,
buttons, beads, and nickels
filling up the cracker tin.

Matchbox cars mixed with the matches,
dirty socks under a bed,
blobs of Play Dough fused together,
cartoon doodles of robot heads.

A kazoo and a drum on the kitchen table,
a mud-pie recipe requiring 'lots of sand',
paper mache ingredients spread out in the hallway -
a happy home has busy hands.

BBs in a mason jar,
tooth fairy findings in a Ziplock bag,
melted bar soap in a puddle,
comfy beds with springs that sag.

Mis-matched plates and silverware,
patient houseplants with braided leaves,
a human ladder made of siblings,
paper snowflakes on the winter eaves.

Muddy rain boots by the door,
a worn-out path down to the creek,
carpet rubbed in trafficked places -
a happy home has running feet.

Crickets singing with the radio,
fingernail clippers in the silverware drawer,
pebbles in pockets in the washing machine,
hand prints on the white back door.

Building blocks on the green front lawn,
a bicycle in pieces with a wrench nearby,
watercolor art draped over a clothesline
made from the string of a mended kite.

Goofy poems and Bible verses,
movie lines and midnight dreams,
related with charming sagacity -
a happy home has voices sweet.

Pencil colors and a coloring book,
on the steps of the big back porch, 
fireflies in a screen-topped jar,
books in stacks on shelves and floor.

A rake and broom against a tree
(reassurance of a fresh-kept yard),
kittens with daisies around their necks,
wallet photos mixed with UNO cards.

Swinging braids and tiny earrings,
cowboy boots and pocket knives,
a happy home is filled with learners -
baking cookies; counting by fives.

So sticky hugs and greasy kisses,
dirty hands and barefoot feet,
shining eyes and happy faces,
work to make a home complete."

- Copyright Kyrie McAlan 2016

{Note: I scribbled most of the above poem in July, right before Jaylyn and Jewel's oldest sister and her family (who had been temporarily living in The Grandparents' house after their own flooded) moved back home. With eight children, there is never a dull moment when visiting them (the photo above is the next-to-youngest son)! We loved having them so close for those months as their house was being repaired, and on the night we were up at The Grandparents' house helping them get ready to move back home, I realized just how much I was going to miss them being up there, filling the dear old house with noise and life and the silly little shenanigans that kids come up with! This is for them.}

Book Review: "The Shattered Vigil" by Patrick W. Carr

The Shattered Vigil by Patrick W. Carr

My rating: 2 of 5 stars


First thing: Read the first book first. I started this book (the second in the series) without realizing how horrible it was going to be as a stand-alone. I’ve read the second book in several series and, though it would have been nice to know what happened before, those stories were able to be picked up and enjoyed without any trouble. This is not that kind of series! This second book was full of common words used in completely uncommon ways - and meaning completely different things - than usual. That’s okay, just as long as the author gives the reader his story’s definitions and usages of those words in the beginning. I can only hope that the first book explains what’s going on, and gives the reader a good sense of context.

Aside from the confusion over word usage, I found this book rather difficult reading. For starters, the print was very small. I’d much rather have a thick book with normal-sized print, than a book of ordinary thickness with a font size that you need a magnifying glass for.

Also, the story seemed to move in spurts. Either I seemed to be struggling to get through the tedium of a scene, or things were moving so fast that I could barely read quickly enough to keep up.

The ‘religious’ elements seemed very weak for the strength of the story itself. There were some thought-provoking points made, and concern was expressed in a couple of places for the spiritual well-being of some of the characters. But much of their ‘theology’ was just off, and the dangerous war-like atmosphere of the setting called for some death to happen, in which cases much of the solemnity and concern was largely passed over, and sometimes lost altogether.

Though the story was interesting and the author obviously has a great imagination (the book is a creative mix of allegory, fantasy, mystery, and sci-fi), I would only be able to say it was “okay” if someone asked me whether I would recommend it.

I received a free copy from the publisher. No review, positive or otherwise, was required—all opinions are my own.

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Book Review: "Shadow of the Storm" by Connilyn Cossette

Shadow of the Storm by Connilyn Cossette

My rating: 3 of 5 stars


Mrs. Cossette captures her readers almost from the first page, with vivid descriptions, a quickly-moving story line, and characters that make you root for them right from the first. I appreciated the story even though I have not read the first book in this series.
Her imagination and, by all evidence, detailed research make the section of Biblical history come alive by presenting how the events may have appeared and been experienced by someone who lived through them.

The author touches many emotions and important issues - loss, betrayal, forgiveness, emotional and physical pain, joy, healing, change, trust, adoption, love, sacrifice - and presents them with a Biblical and undeniably redemptive goal. Even though this is an Old Testament setting, Mrs. Cossette points a clear picture to the future and the coming Savior. I loved how she wove Salvation symbolism in at every other turn.

I think my only real drawback (or reason I would not recommend this book to young teen-aged readers) is because of a few somewhat-graphic descriptions. The occupation of midwifery is a main part of the story, and several scenes are pretty descriptive.

Overall, if you love the Bible, enjoy history, or just like a good story, my opinion is that this is a pretty good choice.

Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book from Bethany House Publishers, in exchange for my honest review.

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Forever, He Is Alive!

"The moon and stars they wept,
The morning sun was dead -
The Savior of the world was fallen.
His body on the cross,
His blood poured out for us,
The weight of every curse upon Him.

One final breath He gave
As Heaven looked away.
The Son of God was laid in darkness.
A battle in the grave -
The war on death was waged -
The power of hell forever broken.

The ground began to shake;
The stone was rolled away!
His perfect love could not be overcome!
Now death where is your sting?
Our resurrected King
Has rendered you defeated!

Forever, He is glorified!
Forever, He is lifted high!
Forever, He is risen!
He is alive;
He is alive!

We sing hallelujah -
The Lamb has overcome!

Forever, He is glorified!
Forever, He is lifted high!
Forever, He is risen!
He is alive;
He is alive!"

I was listening to the radio on the way to work the other day, and the song "Forever" (Kari Jobe) came on. I've heard it before, and it has never failed to impact me.
The sad sweetness of the singer's voice is piercing in it's gentleness, as she relates the heart-breaking news - the Savior is dead, and all nature mourns. But that's only a small part of the story, and her song soars in triumphant glory as the grave is rendered powerless, and the King rises to reign victorious.
I am reduced to nothing every time, in the face of the awesome Story.
In the hopes that it will be a blessing to you, and lift you up as the reminder of our victorious Savior has lifted me, I have shared it here. The words are above, and the YouTube lyric version below.
Hallelujah!

Book Review: "Shaken" by Tim Tebow

Shaken: Discovering Your True Identity in the Midst of Life's Storms by Tim Tebow

My rating: 4 of 5 stars


In “Shaken”, Tim Tebow weaves Biblical principles with real-life stories that back them up. Some of the stories are from his own life and experience, and he tells them with a refreshing blend of humility, fun, and sober openness. This book reminded me somewhat of the Harris brothers’ “Do Hard Things” (a five-star read)! It both encourages and challenges the reader – yes, life is difficult, yes, there will be people and circumstances determined to discourage and bring you down; but there will also be encouragement. And it’s the ‘hard things’ that strengthen and grow us. Our power in overcoming difficulties or attaining high goals lies in the all-powerful One. For Christians, our identity is in Christ and His love for us. Therefore, even if (or when) our world is shaken, in Him we can remain strong.

Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book from Blogging for Books, in exchange for my honest review.

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Book Review: "Hope Prevails" by Dr. Michelle Bengtson

Hope Prevails: Insights from a Doctor's Personal Journey Through Depression by Michelle Bengtson

My rating: 4 of 5 stars


This was a very encouraging and refreshing book. People in general, even Christians, seem unaware of the fact that so many of the causes and/or aggravators of depression are spiritual issues. Dr. Bengtson wisely understands that depression is not going to be cured by a pill or a therapy session, if the heart is not right with the Lord.

Packed with Biblical principles, this book is full of encouragement and advice from someone who has been there, and who can now look back. I loved that Dr. Bengtson included suggested Bible verses to memorize at the end of each chapter. Also, I appreciated the ‘playlists’ of music she’d found encouraging in her own journey, and the personal prayers for those reading the book.

I only had a couple of issues with this book. The first was that it seems to be advertised as a book to help ‘anyone’ who is going through depression, but when reading, it was clearly a book for those who are already believers in Christ. Many of God’s promises covered in this book are for His children only. They would not apply to someone who does not know Him as Savior and Father. Farther into the book, Dr. Bengtson clarifies that salvation through Jesus is the first step towards freedom; while I am thankful that she did clarify, this clarification should have been nearer the beginning.

The second fault I found was a collection of statements regarding one’s perception of individual worth. A couple of quotes such as “…you have infinite worth because Christ paid the price of his life when he died on the cross to save us,” and, “If you were the only one living, God would have done that just for you because he found you worthy,” bothered me. Christ did not die for us because we were so valuable and worth saving – He died for us out of HIS own goodness and mercy and kindness, and His love is what gives us our value. Before He redeemed us, we were despicable; He and His love are what have cleaned us and made us new and beautiful. He didn’t buy us because we were/are valuable – we are valuable because He bought us. While there are certainly people who struggle with understanding their value in the Lord’s eyes, I think Dr. Bengtson could have done a better job of encouraging them scripturally in this case, judging from her excellent level of communicating in other areas.

Lastly, though I loved how she used large amounts of Scripture throughout the book, I did wish Dr. Bengtson had used the King James Version (or at least the New King James) which, based on research and study experience, I have personally found to be the most true translation of the original text.

Overall, I would definitely recommend this book to Christians struggling with areas of personal darkness and discouragement.

Disclaimer: I received a free copy of this book from the publisher, in exchange for my honest review.

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Book Review: "Hello, Bicycle" by Anna Brones

Hello, Bicycle: An Inspired Guide to the Two-Wheeled Life by Anna Brones

My rating: 2 of 5 stars


This compact little book was, for the most part, a wonderful read for the bicycle enthusiast. It is packed with a plethora of bike-related advice, facts, (charming!) illustrations, resource lists, recipes, activities, careers, etc. It seems to at least touch on – if not thoroughly cover – almost any subject or question that might come to the mind of a cyclist. Best suited for those just starting out. A great encouragement to just get on and ride!

There were some negatives. First, the author did not have any qualms about throwing in a curse word or bit of foul language here and there. This is unprofessional, unnecessary, and unwanted. Also, she really liked her alcoholic beverages. I expected a bicycle book, not a beer commercial. It is very discouraging to have to read a book with a bottle of White-Out in one’s hand. And least, but still annoying, while clever with her words, the author was not great on grammar in a few areas.

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Book Review: "Intercessory Prayer" by Dutch Sheets

Intercessory Prayer: How God Can Use Your Prayers to Move Heaven and Earth by Dutch Sheets

My rating: 2 of 5 stars


As a firm believer in the power of prayer, I was very excited to get this book! As I began to read, I got more excited - this was great! There were insights presented and areas explored that took the significance and meaning of prayer in a Christian's life to an amazingly deeper level. However, as I progressed through the book, I began to come across statements and ideas that bothered me, that did not ring true when held up against the Bible, and some that even seemed to border on blasphemy.

Put simply, the 'good' in this book was 'excellent'; the 'bad' in this book was 'really bad'.

I would NOT recommend this book to a new Christian, or to one who is not mature in the Christian faith; certainly not to one who is easily swayed or gullible. I would highly recommend this book to a well-grounded Christian; someone who knows the Bible, who has a discerning spirit, and who is able to 'eat the meat and spit out the bones' of an idea. As I said above, the good parts are REALLY good, and it is worth it to glean from them.

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Book Review: "The Field Guide to Sports Metaphors" by Josh Chetwynd

The Field Guide to Sports Metaphors: A Compendium of Competitive Words and Idioms by Josh Chetwynd

My rating: 2 of 5 stars


While Mr. Chetwynd has given us an interesting look at a selection of expressions and where they came from, I found this book to be somewhat disappointing.

For starters, unless you have a decent familiarity with a variety of sports, much of what is referenced simply does not make sense. Mr. Chetwynd uses a lot of sporty jargon, seemingly assuming anyone who picks up his book is an avid and knowledgeable sports fan. If someone unfamiliar with sports, but interested in words and where they come from, reads this book, many times throughout it they will be struggling to follow what he's communicating. Add to that the fact that the author seems to have a fascination with using distracting puns, annoying satire, pointed sarcasm, and lots of metaphors in general, it makes for difficult reading.

Secondly, in many of the entries, there seemed to be a focus on how the word or phrase came to be used in the world of sports, instead of how the expression began to be used outside that context. Several times, there was not even a definition of how the expression in question is even used outside of sports, just a statement that it is. By reading the descriptions of this book, one is led to believe that the opposite is what they will be experiencing.

Also, Mr. Chetwynd persistently used the notation "BCE" when referencing relevant sports facts from ancient times, when "B.C." is correct.

Lastly, while the small font size possibly enabled the book to be contained in a compact, almost pocket-sized little volume, I am afraid the tiny print was another drawback for me.

The best thing about this book was it's design. The cover's navy, rich green, and bright white color scheme was refreshing and eye-pleasing, and the vintage artwork agreed with the "Field Guide..." title.

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Thoughts On: Is God Real?

Tonight Dad, Mom, Trissy, and I went into town and got frozen yogurt at a new shop that opened up recently. We took it to eat at a rather unconventional hang-out (the rest stop on the highway going through town), but that's just how we roll. We strolled along the walking paths and sang silly old cowboy songs. As we got ready to leave, Trissy stopped to give someone a Gospel paper, and invite him to Victory Rd. A dear man, he is eighty-five and works as a security guard at the rest stop. And he is an atheist.

Trissy said he was very kind and polite, and very sad. His wife died more than thirty-five years ago and now he lives his own life waiting to die. He has chosen to believe that there is no God.

But denying something exists does not make it go away - sooner or later it must be faced. One can, for convenience' sake, deny that the "check oil" light is on in their car. But that does not negate the fact that they must eventually deal with the issue, or risk ruining their motor.

Oh that the Lord would open his eyes! If God were not real, and our human souls were not destined to live on, but our bodies to simply return to dust when we die, yet those who believe on Him still have lost nothing. But if God is real, and our human souls are destined to live on forever - in either a state of incomprehensible joy with Him, or ghastly terror without Him - then those who refuse His mercy stand to lose everything.

For me personally, I simply cannot understand how it is possible for a person to live without God, without Christ.
For starters, if there is no God, then there is no purpose to life - an idea that the human spirit's very core rebels against.
And if there is no God, then where did everything come from? Where did we come from? Some say that everything evolved to the state it's in through a sequence of long, slow events and processes, taking millions, or even billions, of years to accomplish.

Ok, so how exactly did this supposedly happen? How did humans get here?
Well, they say, we are evolved from the monkeys.
Ok, where did the monkeys come from?
Well, they evolved up from a lower life form.
Where did the 'lower life form' come from?
Well, a wet and sort of 'soupy' environment provided the conditions for the cells of that lower life form to emerge from.
Where did the 'soup' come from?
Well, after millions of years of acidic rain on the prehistoric rocks, this 'soup' was produced.
Ok, so, where did the prehistoric rocks come from?
They were already part of the Earth.
Where did the earth come from?
Well, billions of years before, all the matter in the universe was condensed into a very small area that spun faster and faster until a huge explosion scattered it all back out into the forms of the stars and planets there are today, including the Earth.
Where did all the matter come from?

Now, I do realize that above I am - for demonstration's sake - greatly simplifying the evolutionary theory. But they still can't answer that last question. They don't have an answer. They can't tell you where all that dust that supposedly got together, and supposedly got squished, and supposedly exploded into us originated.
Science proves that 'matter can neither be created, nor destroyed'. So, the obvious answer to, "Where did the dust/dirt/matter come from?" is that someone who transcends the laws of science put it there. Well, then, why don't they just say that and answer the question?

Because if they answer the question by saying, "Someone made it and put it there," they are recognizing the fact that there is a 'higher power' that made everything. That made the world, and everything that is in it. That made them. And if there is someone that powerful, he must be God.

They also don't mention a few other little scientific details when relating the way they believe everything came about. They don't tell you that the 'geologic column' has not been found anywhere on the earth. They don't tell you that, when layers with fossils in them are found, many times the fossilized animals are out of the order in which they were supposed to have evolved. They don't tell you that if the big squish and the big explosion happened at the beginning of time, then all the planets would be spinning in one direction, and that actually many of the planets and moons are spinning in the opposite direction.

In their defense, if they did tell things like this, it would totally undermine their theory, and they need an alternative theory to that of Creation. Because, if Creation is true, then there really is a God who made them. And if there really is a God who made them, He has the right to an answer from them on how they have spent the lives and resources He's given them. And they do not want to have to answer for that.

It may be convenient to believe that there is no God, but it isn't safe.

P.S. Pray for Mr. G. to find what is truth.

Book Review: "Rawhide Down" by Del Quentin Wilber

Rawhide Down: The Near Assassination of Ronald Reagan by Del Quentin Wilber

My rating: 4.5 of 5 stars


A nearly moment-by-moment account of the day of the attempted assassination of President Ronald Reagan. Riveting; I could hardly put it down! I would definitely call it a must-read for Reagan enthusiasts and/or lovers of American history.

Del Quentin Wilber, in his first book, gives us a fascinating look at each of the key players, their motives, values, and reactions to the events of this key day in Reagan's presidency. He also takes time to explain some of the history of the times, and orient us to what events mean in relation to worlds like the Secret Service and the George Washington Hospital ER and OR.

I also greatly appreciated Mr. Wilber's reporting style - he didn't seem to criticize, condone, or report with a particular bias, he just did extensive research and told the story.
Which does bring me to my only objection, and my reason for giving this book 4.5 stars, instead of 5: Wilber does include foul language in recording dialogue of reactions and events, but only when relating direct quotes.

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Book Review: "Courageous" by Dina L. Sleiman

Courageous by Dina L. Sleiman

My rating: 1 of 5 stars


Several characters in this story wrestle with spiritual issues, attempt to discern what is God’s will in various situations, and seek truth, faith, and the peace of God. Initially, since the story touches on differences in religions and spiritual beliefs, I was hopeful that it would have a powerful message of redemption, a loving presentation of the truth of the Bible, and a clear distinction between the Christianity of the Bible and the heartbreaking errors of belief held by the other religions in the story.

While all three of these hopes were partially realized, I was severely disappointed overall. First, there was only a very vague and shallow description of redemption in the lives of a couple of the struggling characters, and the ‘peace’ they received came to them supposedly simply through attending a ‘prayer meeting’ held by a group of children. Receiving of the Lord’s peace and forgiveness is certainly possible to anyone who expresses true repentance of sin! But since it is a personal matter, it must be dealt with personally - must be taken up by the individual and settled between the Lord and them alone. This type of scene was not related. Second, while the Gospel (the fact that Jesus Christ made the atoning sacrifice for mankind by dying on the cross, then rising from the dead, and that faith in Him and belief on Him is the only way a man’s or woman’s sins are covered and they can get to Heaven) was presented/touched on in a couple of places, it was vague and unclear; it was certainly not stressed, though there were several excellent opportunities for the characters to do so, even enhancing the impact of the story. Third, a clear distinction between the religious beliefs of the characters was just not there. There were even conversations among the characters, discussing how their religions were different, then stating that they were ‘not so very different from each other’. I found this disturbing. Either you have the truth, or you do not. Either you are believing the truth, or you are believing a lie, no matter how sincerely. And sadly, so many believe lies.

Overall, I felt that the author’s stand on the fundamental teachings of God’s Word was shaky, at best. This is the primary reason I must say that I was disappointed in this book.

There were a few other issues that I personally did not appreciate. One was that, though intimate immorality was discussed and portrayed as wrong, there were several kisses shared by an unmarried man and woman, and this was treated as if it was fine. The other was that there were ‘women knights’, and women actively involved in battles. Even the author concedes that this is not historically accurate – traditionally, while women sometimes were trained in self-defense skills or as archers, the men were the knights, the protectors, and the guards for the women and the children precious to them.

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Book Review: "A Flight of Arrows" by Lori Benton

A Flight of Arrows by Lori Benton

My rating: 3 of 5 stars


In order to fully appreciate and understand the significance, depth, and meaning in the lessons and struggles of this story, you should first read book number one in the Pathfinders' set, "The Wood's Edge". Book two is much more powerful if you understand where the characters have come from - their 'paths', so to speak.

I have mixed feelings about this book, as I did about the first one.

(minor spoilers below)

The book started out (about the first 1/3 of the book) rather tedious... Sequence of events: crisis, relief, crisis, relief, crisis, relief - and it was the same 'crisis' over and over. It just got a little too dramatic. Maybe I'm being overly critical, but I work at an academy, and it was beginning to remind me of the social 'drama' of high-school.

In the area of romantic relationships, there seemed to be a lot of importance put on 'following your heart', versus taking in the whole picture and making the best choice overall. As if it's more important to struggle against the 'obstacles' (circumstances, people, etc.) so that you can eventually get your own way, instead of realizing that maybe it would be better for those around you, for future generations, and even for yourself, if you sacrifice what you want now for something later.

There are several instances of unmarried couples kissing.

A young man accidentally walks in on a young woman taking a bath. He retreats as quickly as he can, but before he does, she sees him and unashamedly rises out of the tub. She (the young man's sweetheart/girlfriend) is unfair to him in several other similar instances (though the one above was the worst). She acted in ways that were alluring and tempting to him, without seeming to realize (or care) the pain and struggle it is for a young man to remain in control of his desires while being alone with the girl he hopes to marry. He was definitely the honorable one of the two, reminding her of the importance of their purity, and respect to her father. Her father had not given his blessing to their relationship. The girl demonstrated disobedience, rudeness, and defiance of his wishes several times throughout the beginning of the story.

(end of spoilers)

Overall however, I'd say this second book was better than the first one.

The author's attention to detail was impressive. The research required for accurate depiction of life among the peoples and circumstances of that era would have to be extensive, to say the least. Yet the tone and words of the storytelling itself (not simply the dialog), as well as descriptions of culture, events, and practices, definitely take you to another place and time. The up-close-and-personal meetings of actual historical people was also an effective tool used to pull the reader right into the events the characters found themselves in. I didn't realize until nearly the end of the book how I'd grown to love the characters almost as if they were real people - friends I'd actually walked with through twenty years (the approximate time span the two books cover) of turmoil, struggle, and victory.

There were alot of characters to keep up with. Most of them were introduced in the first book, but there were a couple of new ones in this book. A handful of main characters, and a whole army (pardon the pun) of supporting characters. But they weren't too hard to keep up with. The author initially took turns writing segments of the story from the point of view of each of the main characters, until the paths began to join - a gathering of the loose threads of each individual's journey until they all came together. She did a beautiful job of weaving all the threads to a close.

The lessons, virtues, and Biblical principles demonstrated throughout the story were my favorite element - what's a good story if you don't come away having learned something lasting? Honor, courage, ingenuity, hope, loyalty, love, trust in the Lord, faith, peace, forgiveness, patience, humility, perseverance, sacrifice, joy - all these were met by the characters and/or demonstrated in their lives. It was a fictitious story, but the human emotion, the struggles of flawed people living in a broken and sin-filled world of war and loss, and the redemption offered by Christ were true to life and oh so very real. I do not often get emotional over fiction but, at what is probably the climax of the story, I wept with the pain and the glory of the power of God's unfathomable Love and how it can completely change a broken wrath-filled man into an incredible unwavering example of His grace. The pages blurred with the heart-rending account. But though so often the paths of God's children lead through dangers, toils, and snares, His grace will lead us Home. And what Satan means for evil, the Lord can turn into glorious good.

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